Tips for Establishing Casual Relationships with Students
Substitute Teacher Tips One way of establishing a relationship with a student is to "ask them to volunteer to be the teacher or sub's helper." The teacher or sub can then make direct eye contact with just one student "the one who volunteers for the activity," and try to smile friendly to that student as saying "thank you for being so kind to help me today," or maybe even say it out loud, of which I do, "thanks for your help." there are students who LIKE TO BE THE TEACHER'S HELPER, or the sub's helper. Then there are students who do not. A sub has to determine which works best for those she serves. Students sometimes feel they are even the sub's pet, if they become her helper, which is "relationship building" with that particular student. However, another process to make it fair to all students may be to just pick a different student each time, so every student has a chance to be the sub's helper or pet for the day.